Rethinking Rabbit Bonding: How to Understand and Address Aggression

Are there some rabbits who can’t be bonded with another rabbit? One reader asks: 'Our rabbit is aggressive and attacks every rabbit she meets on speed dates. Should we keep introducing her to more rabbits, hoping she will eventually find “the one”? Or is she destined to stay a solo bunny?

While rabbits generally thrive with a companion—and this is true in most cases—getting there can be challenging.

When a rabbit is labeled as "aggressive"—exhibiting behaviors like biting, lunging, boxing, or grunting—it’s important to remember that aggression is not an inherent trait. Such labels can create confusion, making it harder to truly see the rabbit in front of us and understand their behavior.

Rather than asking, 'Can this rabbit be bonded?' try reframing the question: 'Is this rabbit’s environment meeting all their needs?' This isn’t to suggest you’re not providing excellent care—I know you are! Every rabbit is unique, and meeting their individual needs often requires going beyond a one-size-fits-all approach. For more tips on meeting a rabbit’s needs, check out this blog post.

As you investigate your rabbit's behavior, consider these key areas:

Could Your Rabbit’s Aggression Be Linked to Pain?

Rabbits experiencing discomfort or pain may act aggressively, and a sudden increase in biting, lunging, boxing, or growling could point to an underlying medical issue. Before making any assumptions about your rabbit's ability to bond, take them to a rabbit-savvy veterinarian for a thorough examination. Once their medical needs are identified and their pain properly managed, you may notice a significant improvement in their behavior.

What Behavior Patterns Can Help You Understand Aggression?

Behavior doesn’t happen in a vacuum—context and environment matter. Describe what you see with your eyes, not your ideas, and note when and where concerning behaviors occur. Look for patterns in what happens immediately before the biting or lunging behaviors.

Do the behaviors occur during brief introductions or prolonged interactions? Try timing speed dates and bonding sessions. You may need to make the sessions shorter. Assess the bonding space: Is it large enough to allow rabbits to move away from each other physically—putting space between themselves to avoid conflict, feel safe, or de-escalate tense interactions?

Recording interactions on video can provide valuable insights into body language and help identify triggers you might miss in real-time, especially when viewed in slow motion.

How to Help Your Rabbit Feel Safe and Reduce Aggression

Feeling secure is essential for reducing aggressive behaviors. When rabbits lunge or bite, they may be signaling that they feel unsafe and need either physical distance or a greater sense of safety.

To help, provide opportunities for each rabbit to control their interactions and create distance when needed. This sense of agency—the ability to make choices and exert control over their environment—can transform behavior and build trust. By arranging the environment to offer options for retreat, you can reduce stress and promote a stronger sense of security.

Struggling with Rabbit Bonding?

Struggling with Rabbit Bonding? Each rabbit is unique, and finding the right approach to bonding can feel overwhelming. Ready for expert guidance tailored to your rabbit’s needs? Click here to schedule a call—I’d love to help you find a path forward.